|
Quoting LaNegrita12:
Stemming from my previous post, I just had to make a separate one for this topic.
As I mentioned, I had a decent day chatting and getting to know someone. Sweet, with a fantastic sense of humor and cute as button. He thinks I'm pretty groovy too.. so what's the issue. Well he's a wee bit older than I am .. so more than a wee bit.
It seems that men have a bit of issue with me being 36 and wanting a serious relationship with someone who is 20+ years my senior. That's what I have been interested in for.. well forever.
In my 20s I thought men in their 30s are really just getting over being lost in their 20s.
Men in their 40s are just humping, trying to get things set for when they can live again in their 50s.
Men in their 50s.. now that's sexy as all get out.
Call it a preference. I guess it's the swagger, confidence, and "to hell with it all" attitude. I dated a man in his 50s when I was in my 20s. The only reason it didn't lead to marriage was that he didn't want children.
So now, and I can completely understand the issue, I have to describe why I'm very open to dating outside of my race and really generation. Now, if a very mature 40 something came along.. I'd think about it. Now.. 47 is young to me.. LOL
Stemming from my previous post, I just had to make a separate one for this topic.
As I mentioned, I had a decent day chatting and getting to know someone. Sweet, with a fantastic sense of humor and cute as button. He thinks I'm pretty groovy too.. so what's the issue. Well he's a wee bit older than I am .. so more than a wee bit.
It seems that men have a bit of issue with me being 36 and wanting a serious relationship with someone who is 20+ years my senior. That's what I have been interested in for.. well forever.
In my 20s I thought men in their 30s are really just getting over being lost in their 20s.
Men in their 40s are just humping, trying to get things set for when they can live again in their 50s.
Men in their 50s.. now that's sexy as all get out.
Call it a preference. I guess it's the swagger, confidence, and "to hell with it all" attitude. I dated a man in his 50s when I was in my 20s. The only reason it didn't lead to marriage was that he didn't want children.
So now, and I can completely understand the issue, I have to describe why I'm very open to dating outside of my race and really generation. Now, if a very mature 40 something came along.. I'd think about it. Now.. 47 is young to me.. LOL
|
