Quoting NorthLight:

As a man I do very much appreciate the viewpoints women have, because I truly believe that understanding is the real basis for a functional relationship. It starts with friendship and unquestionably with attraction as well (LOL), but it's love and understanding that keeps the relationship alive.

As a man I do very much appreciate the viewpoints women have, because I truly believe that understanding is the real basis for a functional relationship. It starts with friendship and unquestionably with attraction as well (LOL), but it's love and understanding that keeps the relationship alive.

Quoting GHorn1:

Agreed. Not surprising that some of the most successful dating books for women were written by men. Women have this weird habit of trading misinformation with each other, often focused on how they think things "should" be as opposed to how they really "are".
Definite conflict between fantasy and reality, attempting to interpret male behavior through a female lens...

BTW, none of this applies to LaNegrita (respect).

Quoting deke7344 Give this some thought. Men are not as complicated as women think we are. The current dating environment had it's foundation with the woman's movement of the 60s and 70s. Cosmopolitan became popular and women beagn taking advice from other women. If you think any of the women on the blogs have the answer ask yourself why they still here. Whenever I see a woman's magazine on the newstands with a headline of "99 Ways to please your man" it brings a smile to my face. There aren't 99 ways to please us. Most of us couldn't even remember 99 things. If you do 5 or 6 things very, very well we'll follow you anywhere. If you have a question about a man... ask another man... or not.