Ugh! Life has swept in. My class has a ton of reading, my dad needs another surgery and.... I got a flake.
So, I've been talking to a very cute, nice guy who seemed to have a lot of date potential. He had some serious issues and I emailed support. He came back saying he wanted to know if there was the opportunity to get to know me. Ok. He provided me with a home and cell number.. Ok.
So Sunday he asks to come into town to meet me. Great! Well, it's that day and I haven't heard a word. Yesterday he said he was still coming but.... Ahh... We haven't decided a time or place. My time isn't my own. My son has speech, dad in hospital, mom needs me to drive.. I'm not sitting around eating Bon bons you know.
Thinking he could be a flake.
Well.. I got crap to do...
Have a great one dears
Hi all...
Ugh! Life has swept in. My class has a ton of reading, my dad needs another surgery and.... I got a flake.
So, I've been talking to a very cute, nice guy who seemed to have a lot of date potential. He had some serious issues and I emailed support. He came back saying he wanted to know if there was the opportunity to get to know me. Ok. He provided me with a home and cell number.. Ok.
So Sunday he asks to come into town to meet me. Great! Well, it's that day and I haven't heard a word. Yesterday he said he was still coming but.... Ahh... We haven't decided a time or place. My time isn't my own. My son has speech, dad in hospital, mom needs me to drive.. I'm not sitting around eating Bon bons you know.
How about letting go of the need to vent? I've reached the point in my life where I have zero emotional reaction to female behavior. Zero. None. Kind of like watching two kittens play on a summer day: it's cute, adorable, and entertaining. I notice the behavior, possibly even comment on it, but it doesn't affect me. Why? I learned many years ago that the alternate reality in which everything is exactly as you think it SHOULD be exists only in your mind, and it exists primarily to torture you. Just a thought...
Quoting LaNegrita12
Deke
Touche my dear.. touche
Yes, I will have to admit, that my blog smacks a bit at bitterness. I'll definitely give you that. But wouldn't you prefer that ladies vent here in cyberspace rather than on a date with a a handsome, witty, strapping man? Methinks the gents would be more than happy to allow us women our amusements. A hug dear
Quoting LaNegrita12
Deke
Touche my dear.. touche
Yes, I will have to admit, that my blog smacks a bit at bitterness. I'll definitely give you that. But wouldn't you prefer that ladies vent here in cyberspace rather than on a date with a a handsome, witty, strapping man? Methinks the gents would be more than happy to allow us women our amusements. A hug dear
Hey La,
How about letting go of the need to vent? I've reached the point in my life where I have zero emotional reaction to female behavior. Zero. None. Kind of like watching two kittens play on a summer day: it's cute, adorable, and entertaining. I notice the behavior, possibly even comment on it, but it doesn't affect me. Why? I learned many years ago that the alternate reality in which everything is exactly as you think it SHOULD be exists only in your mind, and it exists primarily to torture you. Just a thought...
Yes, I will have to admit, that my blog smacks a bit at bitterness. I'll definitely give you that. But wouldn't you prefer that ladies vent here in cyberspace rather than on a date with a a handsome, witty, strapping man? Methinks the gents would be more than happy to allow us women our amusements. A hug dear
Deke
Touche my dear.. touche
Yes, I will have to admit, that my blog smacks a bit at bitterness. I'll definitely give you that. But wouldn't you prefer that ladies vent here in cyberspace rather than on a date with a a handsome, witty, strapping man? Methinks the gents would be more than happy to allow us women our amusements. A hug dear
Few month ago I met online a rather remarkable guy, and there was an obvious connection/chemistry between us (rarely happens to me). We were discussing a place/time to meet, and I sent him a current picture of me (only top part). Never heard from him back.
Few weeks later I posted a full length picture of me, and noticed that he looked at my profile few times. About the same time my kid looked at the picture I had sent to the guy, and said:"Mom, you look fat on this picture!".
Being size zero for the last couple of decades, it never occurred to me that someone would ever think of me as being overweight. But that was obviously the reason he changed his mind.
The sad part is that he still is a member of an online dating club, as I am, and I am pretty sure that if we met, at the very least, we would be dating each other for a while....
Few month ago I met online a rather remarkable guy, and there was an obvious connection/chemistry between us (rarely happens to me). We were discussing a place/time to meet, and I sent him a current picture of me (only top part). Never heard from him back.
Few weeks later I posted a full length picture of me, and noticed that he looked at my profile few times. About the same time my kid looked at the picture I had sent to the guy, and said:"Mom, you look fat on this picture!".
Being size zero for the last couple of decades, it never occurred to me that someone would ever think of me as being overweight. But that was obviously the reason he changed his mind.
The sad part is that he still is a member of an online dating club, as I am, and I am pretty sure that if we met, at the very least, we would be dating each other for a while....
At least you have a good attitude about it. It is his loss. There are a lot of good guys out there and I am sure it won't be a problem for you to find someone else so don't waste any more time on him.
At least you have a good attitude about it. It is his loss. There are a lot of good guys out there and I am sure it won't be a problem for you to find someone else so don't waste any more time on him.
Well.... Not sure how to address this. I have ladies who enjoy my blog because I write what they are feeling. I don't think I have bashed men. And... Switch sides?
Ummmmm no.... I'm VERY straight. That, my dear, is not an option.
Well.... Not sure how to address this. I have ladies who enjoy my blog because I write what they are feeling. I don't think I have bashed men. And... Switch sides?
Ummmmm no.... I'm VERY straight. That, my dear, is not an option.
He is not a flake, he is a jerk. He has no respect for your time. It will only go downhill from here. I have a feeling you would still like to hear from him. If you are really interested then give him a second chance and see what happens.
He is not a flake, he is a jerk. He has no respect for your time. It will only go downhill from here. I have a feeling you would still like to hear from him. If you are really interested then give him a second chance and see what happens.
Hi LaNegrita Sorry for everything you are going through.. But just look at it this way if he doesn't come around (the flake)then its his lose.. You seem to be a very nice and pretty young lady.. so its his bad.. God bless you and your family..
Hi LaNegrita Sorry for everything you are going through.. But just look at it this way if he doesn't come around (the flake)then its his lose.. You seem to be a very nice and pretty young lady.. so its his bad.. God bless you and your family..
